Chastity tips, an indefinite horizon

Chastity tips, an indefinite Horizon
As it’s been a while since I’ve made a contribution here, and as the season of Spring has come upon us, I felt the desire to offer just a few musings of my own regarding firstly chastity, and then my own personal link with that to CP under the administration of Mistress Jane. I hasten to add that these are just a few comments, observations, experiences and reflections, and by no means are gospel, just my own feelings.
I recently heard a horror story about someone who decided to enter the world of chastity using one of those clear polycarbonate devices whose name comprises of two letters followed by four digits…. you all know the one to which I’m referring. Anyway, he turned up for a session one day at the chambers of a most highly respected Mistress, who when they got into commencing the session immediately noticed the very unhealthy state of his cock, which was inflamed and looking almost raw in places, and almost entirely caused by the dastardly device! The device had been on continuously for some time with no removal for purposes of personal hygiene. That particular device needs to be removed almost daily for attending to personal hygiene, so the keyholder must be constantly available. Failure to do so will quickly cause sweatiness within the device, bacteria developing and can easily result in balanitis…. something you do not want to develop! I look upon it either as a novelty or maybe for use in session, or if Mistress decides to lock a sub into one for a couple of days before sending him off down the road. There is no way that one can even insert a couple of cotton buds into the device in order for any sort of cleaning within to take effect.
Essentially, you’re far better off with a stainless steel device, whether it’s off the shelf, and you happen to be extremely lucky with how well it fits your own anatomy, or bespoke from a manufacturer like Mature Metal in Texas, or as I have recently discovered, Red Chili Chastity who are based in both France and Spain. The latter have just supplied me with a London Tower which is a noticeably lighter device than the Jail Bird in which I had been locked since early 2016. I cannot stress how crucial it is to measure oneself accurately, and it’s not easy. Mature Metal actually sell a series of black plastic sizing rings which are fine for their products measured in Imperial, but obviously we go metric with Red Chili  http://malechastity-devices.com/    and must convert carefully if using the American supplied measuring rings. The only other bespoke supplier I’ve come across is a Buckingham based company called Fabrichine Ltd., and you’ll find them via eBay when you search for male chastity devices which will provide a link to them. They’ll build pretty much anything you design, as well as their own offerings.
If you’re going to enter the world of chastity I feel that you are making a huge commitment to both your key holder and oneself, and it’s not something to be undertaken lightly as you need to consider it as a lifestyle which is potentially going to have an indefinite horizon, meaning a period of a few months, a year or two, or in some cases year in year out. Obviously one’s personal status has to be appropriate for this, as being locked for a couple of days and nights when you’re away from home or your partner isn’t chastity control in the true spirit of the word, but more a case of the novelty of being locked in a device by a Mistress and preventing any self abuse for a couple of days. (Please don’t think that I am being arrogant in expressing that, as that’s not intended in any way.) Clearly there is control over your possible actions, but it’s so short term that it doesn’t impact and one doesn’t embrace the frustration aspect of chastity under those circumstances. I’m not a purist by any means, I would hasten to add.
When I was presented with the opportunity to be “owned” and continuing with chastity, I became so very happy, as it’s such a great honour and a huge privilege, and was the opportunity to offer my obedience, faithfulness and total devotion to my Mistress. Put quite simply, Mistress Jane owns my cock and She decides whenever I will have the pleasure of release and relief. That’s the essentials of it, but there are exceptions to almost every rule, and Mistress Jane has all the great qualities of a superb world class Mistress who is sufficiently wise and considerate after a bdsm session, for example where nettles or saline injections have been used on the cock to allow one a specified recovery period outside of being locked in the device. That unfortunately is occasionally when one may succumb to temptation and commit an indiscretion through masturbation. Chastity must always involve honesty in the Mistress/sub relationship, and that’s why I always confess to any sins that I’ve committed, and I always willingly accept the consequences however painful and demanding they may be. If you don’t behave honestly then you’re only cheating oneself, and the relationship becomes meaningless.
There are responsibilities and expectations to face up to in an “owned” and chaste Mistress/sub relationship. Having learnt through experience, it can happen where maybe one has failed in a task or whatever it might be, and surely the worst punishment, far more so than a painful beating, is actually further denial. It is something which Mistress can implement without all the effort and hard work in administering severe CP. The resulting consequence of denial can be frightening and very depressing, bringing one down to a low. The best solution is not to go there….. make sure you get it right! There are so many ways where Mistress always has the upper hand so to speak, but that’s why She is the Mistress and we are mere submissives at Her feet, but those are Her trade secrets and best for one to not find out!
Another feature of long term chastity is frustration, when you’re absolutely desperate for relief and there’s no chance at all of it happening. Sometimes when it’s at its peak, or an extreme level, you can feel that you just need to be f*cked senseless by Mistress….? Frustration is always going to be present during a chastity lifestyle, and I’ve found that one way of combating it is through the administration of regular CP. Some of you may have seen the video clips of Mistress Jane administering a serious caning, or using the Heavy Prison Strap or another item from Her assortment of blunt instruments, and if you have, then you will recognise how highly proficient that Mistress is at CP. Wonderfully so! During a full on CP session, when the point is reached with a release of endorphins and you enter that other world of subspace, I find it must be the resulting “high” that helps to nullify the frustration that’s encountered in chastity. Prior to when we started to explore CP, I never in a million years thought that it was going to become something which I would enjoy doing so much with Mistress Jane, and it’s certainly worked for me!
Those were just a few musings and comments in no particular order by me on my own interpretation of chastity….. my feelings and sentiments. It’s a wonderful experience if you are fortunate to have a Mistress of the calibre and qualities of Mistress Jane.
Keep it #locked and #controlled in divine #chastity @MistressJane3
By Save Phoenix

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