So you’ve sought the services of a Professional Mistress or Dominatrix. After weeks of trawling though site after site, one particular has caught your eye. You read through it and make your very first booking.
Nervously you make your first appointment and you’re sh*tting bricks. Its impossible to concentrate on anything else, you feel distracted. As your appointment draws nearer your mind goes in to overdrive.
‘What will happen?’…’Will I be safe?’…What if….? ‘Will she look like her photos?’….’Will i enjoy it?…’What the F’ck am I doing’…Questions, questions and scenario’s going round and round in your head.
Parking your car, you take a deep breath…this is it! You’re approaching her premises. Thud thud thud, as your heart pounds deeply, making you feel breathless. Butterflies, your stomach is churning. Fight or flight. Adrenaline is what is driving you right now. You lift your hand to knock on her door….knock knock. Silence. Then you hear the distinct sound of heels walking towards the door. Oh my God, this is it and the door opens. Sound familiar?
Yes, I do get it. Its a big thing booking your first appointment with a Professional Mistress. From the moment you make a booking to the very moment you cross her threshold, its been a roller-coaster of feelings. Like fear and excitement all rolled in to one big soup. But that’s all part of it, the build up to your session.
Some guys have been visiting Professional Mistresses for years and still feel like its their first time every time. Its all part and parcel. Anyway Its supposed to be exciting so embrace it, enjoy it and never say never.